My Promise To You

Best Selling Author & Life Coach Dr. Rajiv Parti – the Heartbreak Doctor

Hello, I am Dr. Rajiv Parti. I am a certified relationship coach and expert in healing from heartbreak.

I specialize in transforming the pain of heartbreak into joy and love using my unique integrative process. This includes not just the heartbreak of a lost relationship, but the chronic pain of emotional disconnection of an existing relationship.

Whether you have been through: Emotional abandonment, Infidelity, Emotional affairs, Divorce, Bad break-up, Loveless relationship, Abuse, or any other relationship crisis – The path to healing and love is essentially the same using the principles of consciousness-based healing and post-traumatic growth.

Even if it feels like the hurt will never end, I promise you that LOVE is on the other side of your pain.

You can get to a place that is better than how you felt before your heartbreak. The crisis you’re in may even be the perfect catalyst for changes that need to be made.

Imagine the peace of forgiveness. Imagine knowing your own power in your situation–without self-judgment. Can you picture yourself bursting with gratitude and joy?

You can be loved for who you truly are and experience the deep connection of sharing your life with another.

You Will Thrive in Love Again!

I know you can come out the other side, because it happened to me too.

My Journey

I died and came back to life.

After years of enjoying great success in my career as a heart anesthesiologist, I was very focused on the material, worldly effects of financial rewards. I had a big house, luxury cars, and the best of everything!

But several years ago, I had a profound near-death experience (NDE) during surgery that led to a personal spiritual awakening. I was saved on Christmas Day, 2010, and it transformed my life forever. (For more about this, see my best-selling book “Dying to Wake Up: A Doctors Voyage Into the Afterlife and the Wisdom He Brought Back”).

During this NDE, I left my body and entered a realm of consciousness beyond our physical lives. I experienced truths that shattered my entire world view.

As a result, I left my career as former Chief of Anesthesiology at Bakersfield Heart Hospital to study holistic paths toward healing the mind, body and spirit.

It was such a rude awakening to find that my own physical healing was activated not by the prescription medications that I myself had prescribed to thousands of patients as a conventional pain management expert.

Instead, I found that it was the practice of meditation and the adoption of Ayurveda that healed me. Through a holistic path of healing, I managed my pain without medications, came out of my depression, and completely physically healed myself through the lessons I learned in my NDE.

Then, Life tested me again…

That is why you are here. You are meant for great love, and it is waiting for you.

Are you ready to get started? If yes, I urge you to complete my pre-appointment questionnaire to see if we might be a good fit to work together.

My Heart was Broken

After my NDE, I thought I had it all figured out!

But then, seemingly out-of-the-blue, my wife told me she didn’t love me anymore.

At that point, I began to doubt everything I thought I knew.  I was absolutely devastated and heart-broken. I suffered from chest pains, rumination, poor sleep, and symptoms of PTSD. I felt victimized by love and all consumed with emotional pain.

But after the initial shock and grief subsided, I was able to look inward and find my power. I saw my role in the demise of my marriage.

As the days passed and our anger and vengeance ebbed, I finally heard the heartbreak in my wife’s voice in a new way. I  heard her anger and frustration with me. And I realized that I had broken her heart as well, even if unconsciously.  And perhaps it was I that started us down the road that brought us to impending divorce.

Thank goodness I saw the opportunity to apply the lessons I learned from my NDE.

I knew that the only way to change my relationship and thrive in love again was to change myself.

And so I embarked upon a journey of compassion, forgiveness, and love. It was not easy—it was painful like childbirth.

But now my wife and I have a new marriage, a better relationship than we ever had. The abundance of love and joy is staggering!

My old relationship had to die before we could experience this new love.

And so it is for you too! Whether you will be with the one who hurt you–or somebody else–the process is the same.

The death of your existing relationship is paving the way for something greater.

Your deepest pain will become your greatest joy.


Credentials and Training

  • Former Physician and Heart Anesthesiologist
  • Near Death Experience Expert and Best-selling Author of Dying to Wake Up
  • Certified Co-active Coach from the Coaches Training Institute
  • Certified Mars Venus Life Coach by Dr. John Gray
  • Certified Meditation Instructor trained at Chopra University
  • M.D. from Maulana Azad Medical College, Delhi University
  • Chief of Anesthesia at Hope Hospital for 18 years
  • Founder of the Pain Management Institute of California

Are you ready to join me in healing your heartbreak and thriving in love again? If so, click the button below and complete my pre-appointment questionnaire to see if we might be a good fit to work together. Together, we can mend your broken heart and help you find love again!