Hello, I am Dr. Rajiv Parti–or Dr. Raj, the Heartbreak Doctor.
I specialize in transforming the pain of heartbreak into joy and love using my unique integrative process.
Whether you have been through: Emotional abandonment; Infidelity; Emotional affairs; Divorce; Bad break-up; Loveless relationship; Abuse; or any other relationship crisis; The path to healing and love is essentially the same using the principles of consciousness-based healing and post-traumatic growth.
Even if it feels like the hurt will never end, I promise you that LOVE is on the other side of your pain.
You can get to a place that is better than how you felt before your heartbreak. The crisis you’re in may even be the perfect catalyst for changes that need to be made.
Imagine the peace of forgiveness. Imagine knowing your own power in your situation–without self-judgment. Can you picture yourself bursting with gratitude and joy?
You can be loved for who you truly are and experience the deep connection of sharing your life with another.
You Will Thrive in Love Again.
I know you can come out the other side, because it happened to me too.
I died and came back to life.
After years of enjoying great success in my career as a heart anesthesiologist, I was very focused on the material, worldly effects of financial rewards. I had a big house, luxury cars, and the best of everything!
But several years ago, I had a profound near-death experience (NDE) during surgery that led to a personal spiritual awakening. I was saved on Christmas Day, 2010, and it transformed my life forever. (For more about this, see my best-selling book “Dying to Wake Up: A Doctors Voyage Into the Afterlife and the Wisdom He Brought Back.”)
During this NDE, I left my body and entered a realm of consciousness beyond our physical lives. I experienced truths that shattered my entire world view.
As a result, I left my career as former Chief of Anesthesiology at Bakersfield Heart Hospital to study holistic paths toward healing the mind, body and spirit.
It was such a rude awakening to find that my own physical healing was activated not by the prescription medications that I myself had prescribed to thousands of patients as a conventional pain management expert.
Instead, I found that it was the practice of meditation and the adoption of Ayurveda that healed me. Through a holistic path of healing, I managed my pain without medications, came out of my depression, and completely physically healed myself through the lessons I learned in my NDE.
Then, Life tested me again.
My Heart was broken
After my NDE, I thought I had it all figured out!
But then, seemingly out-of-the-blue, my wife told me she didn’t love me anymore.
I was absolutely devastated and heart-broken. I suffered from chest pains, rumination, poor sleep, and symptoms of PTSD.
I felt victimized by love and all consumed with emotional pain.
But after the initial shock and grief subsided, I was able to look inward and find my power. I saw my role in the demise of my marriage.
But most importantly, I saw the opportunity to apply the lessons I learned on the other side during my NDE.
I knew that the only way to change my relationship and thrive in love again was to change myself.
And so I embarked upon a journey of compassion, forgiveness, and love. It was not easy—it was painful like childbirth.
But now my wife and I have a new marriage, a better relationship than we ever had. The abundance of love and joy is staggering!
My old relationship had to die before we could experience this new love.
And so it is for you too! Whether you will be with the one who hurt you–or somebody else–the process is the same.
The death of your existing relationship is paving the way for something greater.
Your deepest pain will become your greatest joy.
I understand what it is to stumble badly and lose much of what was dear to me—my health, my career, my house, my marriage.
But there is a way!
Through a combination of consciousness-based healing and the principles of post-traumatic growth, you will come out the other side with strength, wisdom, and compassionate love like you never thought was possible!
Using my unique “Dr. Raj’s Integrative Process,” you can truly heal your heartbreak, grow from the pain, and find love again.
This process is a responsive process that integrates spiritual lessons gained from my NDE, as well as Eastern Wisdom Traditions, and Western Medicine. I als draw from my own methods of Consciousness-Based Healing, which initiates quantum healing through the practice of expanding your consciousness. To hear more about this process click here.
You will find on this journey that Love is always available to you–like a radio frequency that you tune into and blast like your favorite song.
That is why you are here. You are meant for great love, and it is waiting for you.
So join me in healing your heartbreak and thriving in love again.
Apply for a free Heal Your Heartbreak session with me, or get my free Ebook: Healing Your Broken Heart here.
Credentials and Training
Former Physician and Heart Anesthesiologist
Near Death Experience Expert and Best-selling Author of Dying to Wake Up
Certified Gottman Therapist from The Gottman Institute
Certified Co-active Coach from the Coaches Training Institute
Mars Venus Trained Coach by Dr. John Gray
Certified Meditation Instructor trained at Chopra University
Certified Ayurvedic Practitioner
Certified in Energy Medicine
Skilled in alternative modalities (Enneaograms, Past-life Regression, Heart Practices)
M.D. from Maulana Azad Medical College, Delhi University
Chief of Anesthesia at Hope Hospital for 18 years
Founder of the Pain Management Institute of California